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As I sit here writing this, I am just so grateful to be alive.
To think that 30 hours ago I had a knife to my throat, face to face with the threat of being kidnapped and raped.
It was a
Sunday, at 5.22PM. I was alone, walking towards my boyfriend's car in
level B2 of The Curve, Mutiara Damansara. He was not in town, and I was
running errands with
his car. Just as I was putting my shopping bags in the rear seat, the
rear car door was slammed against my back, and a meat cleaver was
pressed against my throat. A man covered my mouth with his hand, and
whispered not to scream. He then shoved me onto the
floor of the backseat of the car and waved the cleaver at me, reminding
me not to scream. He was skinny, wearing a baggy turqoise blue t-shirt,
had a thick moustache and short curly hair, approx 5'8", mid-30s, and
of Indian descent.
At this
moment, second man appeared. He was also in his mid-30s. He was wearing a
red t-shirt, had a crewcut, and was of Malay descent. He grabbed my car
keys and demanded
for my parking ticket. I couldn't remember where it was. They shoved me
deeper into the car, and the Indian man got into the back seat with me,
while the Malay man got into the driver's seat, driving us out of the
carpark.
I told
them they could take everything, just let me go. But at that point they
didn't even ask for money. Instead, the Indian man started to make
sexual advances. Then it
hit me. "Oh my God. Oh my God. This is really happening. I'm being
kidnapped.. and I think I know what they want."
//
From this moment on, there were a few crucial things that happened that I think is the reason I'm alive today.
1. I managed to get into a position to escape.
When
they got into the car, the Indian man had tried to force my body down
onto the floor. I knew that the moment I'm on the floor, there would be
no chance of escape.
So I begged him to let me sit up. I promised him I wouldn't scream or
alert anyone's attention. Thankfully, he trusted me, and let me sit up,
gripping my arm tightly. Then I told him my arm really hurt and to
please not grip it so hard. He loosened his grip.
2. I did not fight for the sake of fighting.
I was in
an enclosed space, with no clear escape route. I would never win in a
fight with these 2 guys, especially when they have sharp weapons. Had I
fought from the get go,
I may not have been in a position to escape. I might've even been
knocked out cold, and God only knows where I would be right now.
3. I was lucky and sneaky.
I knew
that the only way to escape, was to jump out of the car, even if it was
moving. They had locked the car doors. So I leaned back, pretended to
scratch my hair, and
shakily unlocked the door I was leaning against. I'm so lucky they did
not see or hear this!
4. I went 'crazy' at the right time.
And then
I waited. I knew that the car would have to slow down outside the
parking lot, as it exits to merge with the main roads. The moment it
slowed down, I opened the
car door and tried to make a run for it. I failed. I kicked my legs out
of the car, but the Indian man had managed to pull my body back in.
From this moment on, everything is a blur. I remember the Malay driver
temporarily stopping the car, leaning over from
the driver's seat and attempting to close the door and pull my legs in.
At that point I remember thinking, "Even if I don't get out now, I need
to keep the door open and my legs out the door. At the very least, it
should cause a scene, and someone would see
me. Or, the door might hit another car and they'll be forced to slow
down." So I continued kicking. My right foot pushed against the
wide-open car door to keep it open. I recall elbowing, struggling,
kicking, and even biting. I lost my glasses, and was struggling
blindly for my life. At some point the Malay driver yelled, "BAGI DIA
LEPAS! BAGI DIA LEPAS!" (Let her go! Let her go!) and the Indian man
loosened his grip. I made a jump out of the still-moving car, and ran
for my life.
5. I acted in spite of the fear.
My
friends said I was brave. But I didn't feel like it. I was quivering and
shaking in fear. I was so afraid. I thought I was going to die. I was
weak with fear and deathly
afraid. I truly thought "this was it". But I knew I HAD to move. I had
to run. Or there would be a worser fate in store for me. While I was
quaking in fear, I forced myself to look around and see if there was any
way I could escape, or even catch someone's
eye.
I moved to PJ/KL 6 years ago, and I've spent countless mornings, afternoons and nights at The Curve. When my friends and I were organizing Rock Up! back in 2008, we were walking around the place at 4AM even. It's been 6 years, and never once did I feel that I was unsafe at The Curve. Until yesterday. I feel like moving out of the country ASAP. Getting the hell out of this state where you hear of a kidnapping or attempted one every month (remember Nayati?), or a snatch theft every week. And yet I'm fully aware of the fact that in another country with more lax firearm laws, they would've been holding a gun to my head, not a cleaver. And that would've been so, so much worse. I'm Blessed. By God's grace, I am alive and relatively well. And I will live another day to build another cat iPhone app. It just was not my time to go. And for that, I thank God. I want to share this story with everyone because cops tell me that they rarely get to hear it from someone who escapes. Girls, be so very careful. Be vigilant, and please try not to go anywhere alone. If you need to walk to the carpark, and you're alone, get a guard to go with you. I was recently told that it's part of their job description to assist anyone if needed.
Guys, watch out for your girlfriends, wives, mothers, sisters and friends. Walk with them, don't take their paranoia or fear lightly. Watch out for them. And everyone, just watch out for each other. Take care of each other. These things really DO happen. As I ran out of the car, so many people came to help me. Strangers who didn't know who I was, came forward and offered me tissue paper, water, cellphones, and general comfort. Malaysians, please care for one another. You already do. Just keep on caring. Keep watching out for each other. Don't worry about being thought of as "busy body" or "overreacting". The world can be a cruel place, but all it takes is for people to care for one another to make all the difference.
note : kena sgt hati2 and sentiasa berdoa agar djauhkan dari segala musibah..amiin
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