ending sedey Tentang Dhia | death with dignity

dh abis pun citer Tentang Dhia semlm....lps ni me dh tak mau tgk citer bersiri sbb terikat nak kena balik umah awal setiap hari :p

sedey endingnya....dua2 hero+heroin mati...kiranya cinta sampai syurga gitew...

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death with dignity?

adik me ada share article ni..

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in english, tapi kalau ada masa, worth reading...psl hujung hidup kita..psl kalaulah kita ada option, seboleh mungkin kita nak mati kat umah, dikelilingi org2 tersyg...artikel tu omputeh yg tulis...even non-muslim pun percaya pd ajal maut dan konsep mati...psl how doctors know that artificial medicines/drugs and all sorts of treatment sgt menyakitkan...

ni what's my adik says masa weolls berFB...

" If there is a state of the art of end-of-life care, it is this: death with dignity" ..... Quoted from the article. Skrg kita faham kenapa org2 tua dahulu tidak mahu pergi hospital. Kalau dh smpai masa, dia nk berada di rumah dia, dgn dikelilingi oleh keluarga tersayang.....

 Kesimpulannye : doktor tak mahu dia dibuat CPR, doktor tak akan mkn panadol kalau demam, doktor tak akan jahit luka dia ( dia akn pakai gam, true story).... Walhal dia akan buat semua tu pada pesakit2 dia...

But doctors still don’t over-treat themselves. They see the consequences of this constantly. Almost anyone can find a way to die in peace at home, and pain can be managed better than ever.......

When doctors ask if they want “everything” done, they answer yes. Then the nightmare begins. Sometimes, a family really means “do everything,” but often they just mean “do everything that’s reasonable.” The problem is that they may not know what’s reasonable, nor, in their confusion and sorrow, will they ask about it or hear what a physician may be telling them. For their part, doctors told to do “everything” will do it, whether it is reasonable or not.....

weolls (me & my adik2 emo and sentimental bab2 gini) sbb pengalaman sedey & pahit bila mana arwah ayah mengalami kesakitan di penghujung usia...semuanya bermula di hospital (GH)--dgn pelbagai treatment yg kami discovered later not the wise decision, in fact regrettable...wpun semuanya telah ditakdirkan, tapi we learnt lots of things, we learnt it the hard way, the painful way...

note : if we can choose, of course kbykan org wanna have last breath at home...dikelilingi org2 yg kita syg....ajal dan maut sudah tertulis di loh mahfuz .